@jcboy,
An early long time boyfriend worked for Raytheon (sigh, I wonder if he is still around and happy). He asked me to marry him three years in a row, and I declined each time, due to many differences, most of them inconsequential, but not all. We liked each other, but I didn't like him quite enough. We parted ok, as these things go. Last time I saw him, he flew into Los Angeles for business, called and asked me to go to dinner with him, and told me about his now wife, and I was glad for him.
Re missiles, don't get me started.