Quick question,do you think you are not pretty or do you believe you are not pretty?!For a girl that refers to herself as 'TheDivaGirl' I would imagine Divaness is your signature.
Now,I really don't know what meaning the urban dictionary assigns to the word Diva',but I have always been to the impression that it refers to a woman of strength, a woman who is aware of her awesome flaws and celebrates them,a woman whose heart is so calm,serene,yet bold and proud(without an ounce of arrogance)and kind and tender...and so beautiful that when she looks at the mirror,that's the beauty that radiates!
Baby girl am a tell you a secret,people see what you feel(ing) inside.(and you can only give what you stored inside and trust me,you will receive just as much emptiness, selfdoubt...)If you feel,insecure,inferior,all that desperation will display in the face of your mate(s) and believe me,nothing smells worse than an empty woman!You don't need validation from anybody(leave alone a boy/man)(well,with a bit of exception;ourgirlfriends,if you know what I mean)You validate yourself by working and filling your mind,body,heart,spirit and soul with great things,great things and great discoveries about yourself!And trust me,there are a thousand and one wonderful things about you,you just need to uncover that and capitalize on them! Do a SWOT analysis of yourself,find out what makes you stand out and invest on that,find out what are those things that threatness your confidence with this weakness of thinking you not beautiful enough and work on 'em...
Diva,you don't need a lecture you don't need to see a shrink,you just need to understand and believe one think;Girl,if a hot coal falls on your skin,you may get a life long scar,but that does not make you unbeautiful!See,beauty like all God's phenomenal secrets,is hidden beyond...It lays in the inner chest chamber called the heart,and,like all God's masterpieces,it is meant to be felt more than to be rated by our flawed eyes.
Girl,you good enough!So work on yourself until you believe and feel that!