@TheDivaGirl,
My interpretation of McGentrix's cartoon is that it seems everybody has to do everything for you, including eventually finding your vagina.
To be a bit kinder, it seems that you aren't very used to talking with people for whatever reason. People are just people, like you are. Start with small talk. Work on actually being interested in what people say instead of being so centered on yourself.
Consider going to a counsellor.