Me too. All of us, unless we're saints, and even then.. are assholes on occasion to someone else who didn't really deserve it. The men I've been with in my now long life have been good people, including the just friends people. I don't think that's luck exactly. It's having self esteem. Self esteem can be hard to grab if you haven't had it in your life, but this is an instance of where to start - if someone lies even once, it's something to cause concern, and if it is often, you are in asshole-ville. Time to vamoose.