That is nice of you but doesn't give you right to his bank account information.
I agree with Ossobuco. You may be bailing him out because you love him, but by doing so, you're causing problems for yourself. Either way, the more I read, the more I see that you living together would never work unless you're willing to keep flipping the bill. Just because you're kind enough to keep bailing him out doesn't give you the right to snoop into his personal financial stuff.
Sheesh - I can't believe that you don't get that his personal finances are none of your business at this time. You are under no obligation to assist him financially. If you do choose to - that is your choice - and I'd say it's a put up or shut up kind of situation. Either help him out - and don't make a fuss about why you're doing it, or don't help him out.
oh well
i will stopp snooping
appartently i thik i jumped the gun he apolgished and said that he really did think that he did it.
We are not moving i ntogther yet but soon and when he gets his lefe back on track
we are only young so he has plenty of time for that
all that matters is that he loves me very much and so do i
Phoenix
We still have a milkman. He comes on Tuesdays. He also carries orange juice, butter, sour cream, and other dairy stuff. It's really nice :-)
Love and a quarter. Won't even buy you a coffee anymore.
