Re: Craven
Debra_Law wrote:Hi Craven! I see Nimh had to call in the reinforcements! ROFL
nimh doesn't need "reinforcements".
I was simply calling you on your hypocrisy and then thought better of getting involved and deleted it. I didn't know you were responding.
Since you have, I'll repost my comment:
Why should he not respond if he dislikes your post? Why not call out the self-righteousness?
You didn't like Pitter's posts and proceeded to cast your judgement on him in far harsher terms. When nimh references your self-righteousness you tell him that if he doesn't like your posts not to respond.
This right after saying you " call 'em how I see 'em".
Well, what's wrong with nimh calling it too?
Debra_Law wrote:]Short summary: A very selfish man is constantly griping about his wife and some people here are encouraging him to be wary of his Columbian wife due to cultural differences.
Allow me a summary of my own:
A woman who exudes self-righteousness in this thread is making uncalled for judgements of an individual, making decrees that go far beyond what she is reasonably able to determine.
It's off putting to at least a number of the participants.
I will quote your response to nimh here:
Debra_Law wrote:]I will continue to call 'em how I see 'em. If someone is being selfish, I'm going to point it out. If someone is constantly griping about his wife, I'm going to point out how griping destroys relationships. I'm going to point out the benefits of unconditional love. The only one on their high horse is you. If you don't like my posts, don't respond to them.
So, what's wrong with calling you on self-righteousness? Why do you seek to have others not call you on it?
I for one think the comments unfounded and uncalled for in addition to off-putting. The hypocrisy of wanting to cast such judgements and ask others to avoid censure of you just exacerbates it.