Aha! Soz, I haven't read any of those posts, none at all! I guess I'm not really in the loop yet here.
If she's Colombian, maybe it's a cultural thing...???
I live in Hawaii and you would be surprised how different customs and familial rights get themselves expressed cockeyed here and cause all sorts of consternation for those foolish enough to mix cultures in marriage (which is pretty much everybody.
) I'll step back out of this one since I know none of the local customs or particular details of Pitter and/or his dw.