I read it
ossobuco wrote:I think you misjudge Mr. Pitter. There is a backstory to all this.
Yes. I went back and read some of Mr. Pitter's gripes about his wife. He is inconsiderate and self-centered. He concentrates on his own feelings (no matter how petty) and he doesn't consider her feelings.
Why should he consider her feelings when his ice cream cone is melting? So what if SHE needs a drink? Why should he be inconvenienced by a melting cone, standing in line, and struggling to pull a bill out of his wallet to get HER a drink when he would rather be licking his cone? She can get her own drink.
Why should he consider her feelings when his unsavory friend needs a place to stay? The unsavory friend can stay at HIS house. So what if SHE feels uncomfortable around this unsavory person? He has to put up with HER boring relatives when they visit---not to mention HER brother-in-law who was in prison.
Why should he consider her feelings when he's buying a house? So what if it's going to be their marital home? It's his money. Why shouldn't SHE sign a post-nuptial agreement and give up all rights to her own home and any future security in the event of a divorce?
There are two people in this marriage, but he always has an excuse for invalidating her feelings and making his feelings more important. She's his wife. He should validate her feelings. He should treat her with love, respect and consideration. But, he doesn't do that because he's too busy thinking about himself.