@Glennn,
Here we go again. Why don't you go get a beginners class. Every conclusion that you have come up with on your own has been wrong.
I Jn 4:18-19
18 There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love.
19 We love Him because He first loved us.
(NKJ)