@revelette2,
revelette2 wrote:
I'm going to go out on a limb and say why I never bought that stuff about Bill Clinton being a sexual predator. It is because I can't picture him having had to. If you have read Monica Lewinski's book, she really did go out of her way to get Bill's attention that first time. I admit it wasn't hard to do, and I always thought Bill Clinton to have no discrimination or sense at all when it came to his sex life (from the books I have read, I had all three of them at one time, Bill's, Monica's and Hillary's) but I just never once saw him as a predator, to him it was probably just fun and games on both sides. Perhaps he flirted with Paula Jones and she didn't appreciate it, but I don't see it going any further. If I saw him as you guys do, I couldn't have ever liked him at all. Much less admired him for Presidential abilities.
I suspect that many of the people who don't see him for what he is share your view. I don't imagine that you would ever ignore, let alone condone, what you believed to be sexual predation, but I think you have chosen to convince yourself that he is not what he is. Towards this end you have been assisted by Clintonistas (including his wife) who made it their job to attack and demean any woman who had the temerity to object to or identify his predation.
I had and have no intention of re-arguing Clinton's sexual misadventures. It's, apparently, impossible to persuade otherwise those who are convinced he was merely a flirt who just had the bad luck of flirting with scheming sluts. My point was that I believe him to be a sexual predator, but still find him "likable."
I would hope that it goes without saying that I don't find his sexual harassing a "likable" aspect, and that I believe it to be a significant character flaw that seriously diminishes his legacy as president. There are, though, people with very serious character flaws who can be charismatic, personable, and amusing...in short, "likable." They are often known as sociopaths. It may not be as clear, but I feel I can admire certain talents of an overall deplorable character without admiring the character as a man or woman. In any case I think those who defend and excuse Clinton and his sexual predation have a lot more 'splaining to do than someone who acknowledges it and still finds him "likable."