@hingehead,
Not everybody is on Facebook. I'm a reluctant Facebook member, but I have had a great time catching up with expats on NA2K. I know that Roberta and several others really miss the expats, the folks who migrated to FB are not folks you think of as troublemakers. They just tired of the ugliness. Hopefully most will return, but since posting here is a voluntary pastime, they are entitled to spend their free time doing things they enjoy.
It might be useful to remember that Facebook allows you to keep your posts private, you can block people from reading your account. That really is useful if you need to avoid ex-husbands, or really anybody you would not want to spend time with in social or work situations.
Spending time here is something I enjoy. My favorite topics are the humor and game threads. But I also enjoy the music, film topics. If I find someone is getting under my skin to the point I start responding in kind, its time to use the ignore feature.
Some members seem to believe that a clarion call goes out in order to thumb down other members posts. No one has ever asked me to do that and I don't seek back up in order to express my opinion. Oddly enough, I've been thumbed down on silly game threads, even the really harmless ones like "women's names in alphabetical order". Personally the whole thumbs up and down is a non-issue, but it does bother some.
Bottom line is, we are all guests on Robert's site. If I'm driving members away, he would be remiss if he didn't send me packing.