The point is now I'm afraid to see any of the girls that turned me down on POF. Should I actually talk to one of them? Chances that it goes good are 50/50 for me.
You say 50/50 as if you KNOW why they turned you down. Do you know? If you don't then how can you say it's 50/50? If they have already turned you down, what makes you think they wouldn't do it again once they realize they already turned you down on POF?
Something tells me you are taking these personally since you are only focused on the girls who have turned you down. What about the ones who haven't? Or is it the case where ALL of them have turned you down?
I think we are starting to get a sense of your personality. You have a quark that is not exactly sociable. Perhaps these girls have picked up on it as well. Perhaps you shouldn't be so focused on the turn downs. Not every girl is right for you. In fact I would go as far as to say probably 60% of the women you will meet are not right for you. Trying to fight those odds usually end up in heartache or worse.