Quote:Or perhaps you could take solace in knowing there is a lot of good news that never gets reported.
I'll relate a story for ya as to exactly why I agree with this in part, but partly not.
A good friend of mine named Travis recently got back from Iraq. He's not the same anymore; where he used to be loud and blustery, he is quiet and contemplative. He was there for almost two years.
The changes in my pal aren't all bad; I feel that he is much more serious and mature than when he left. The positive experiences that he had over there are things that he can carry with him, and build off of, his whole life. For example, he recounted a little tale about how one day, his unit was working on repairing a school which had been damaged during the fighting, and one of the Iraqi gentlemen that was working with them invited him home for dinner in broken English.
He said that they ate a bunch of wierd food, and noone could talk to him right but they kept trying in what he described as the 'worst, funniest english you ever heard.' Apparently they had a great time. Travis said that the meal, and the people, were fantastic.
I didn't ask him a bunch of questions about the bad stuff he'd seen/done; I mean, who wants to pester their buddy to recount bad memories? But he had a lot to say about the feeling of fear that pervaded many of the Army soldiers he dealt with. The IED bombs strike anywhere, a patrol he was on was hit though he himself wasn't hurt. He said ya never know when your number was going to come up, and in some soldiers (like him) this lead to sort of an existential state of peace; others dealt with it in worse ways.
We didn't talk about the fighting part of it other than for him to say that he thought he shot a guy, but couldn't be sure. He said that was the part that bugged him; he couldn't be sure if he killed a guy or not.
I think there are massively good things happening in Iraq, b/c most of our soldiers want to help while they are there. I think there are also massively bad things happening in Iraq, b/c it's a war zone. I suspect
all war zones are basically the same when it comes to abuses and injustices; there are a sh*t ton of them. But now that they are in the public eye....
I am cheering for America to win this fight, and by win I mean stabilize Iraq and get the hell out. I don't know if it will happen or not. I guess I feel the worst for the US troops who are just trying to do a good job. I asked my buddy if he's going to go back to Iraq and he didn't know. He was pretty pissed off about the way the Army kept him in a lot longer than he was supposed to be in; he said a lot of people were pissed about that.
Hopefully in a year I can look back on the archive of this post and see that everything went well over the last year; but, honestly, I doubt it...
Cycloptichorn