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How much pornography is too much?

 
 
Wed 20 May, 2015 07:43 pm
Hi, I'm a 14 year old male. I have a question about pornography. I've been viewing sexual material online for about about three, maybe four years. I watch porn, not daily, I'd say maybe three or four times a week. These watching sessions can range from 5 minutes, to a maximum of a half an hour. Normally it's about ten minutes. I don't consider myself addicted. Anyway, as I'm young, I have not experienced real sexual intercourse. I was wondering if my mild porn viewing habits could effect my sexual experiences negatively in the future? How much is too much?
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Ragman
 
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Wed 20 May, 2015 10:50 pm
@anonymousgoat,
Until you need glasses. (You could go blind).
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cherrie
 
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Wed 20 May, 2015 11:10 pm
@anonymousgoat,
I'm a tad sceptical that you are a 14 year old boy. This reads like something that was written by a much older person.
Lordyaswas
 
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Wed 20 May, 2015 11:24 pm
@cherrie,
Agreed.

No modern day teenager would use such punctuation.

They would also be too curious as to what new porn was out there to think about writing to old fuddy duddies like us.


My guess is it's a 42 yr old Supermarket Undermanager on his day off.
cherrie
 
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Thu 21 May, 2015 12:17 am
@Lordyaswas,
Yep, also there are no speeling mistacks, and idk imho it shud b txt spk lol
Lordyaswas
 
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Thu 21 May, 2015 12:18 am
@cherrie,
Green
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FBM
 
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Thu 21 May, 2015 12:23 am
Not that I'm claiming to know, but catfishing is a popular hobby nowadays: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=catfish
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Butrflynet
 
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Thu 21 May, 2015 12:25 am
@anonymousgoat,
I'm more concerned about your unsupervised usage of the internet for at least 3 or 4 years starting at the age of 10.
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knaivete
 
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Thu 21 May, 2015 05:59 am
Nice diction.

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hawkeye10
 
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Fri 5 Jun, 2015 12:22 am
@anonymousgoat,
anonymousgoat wrote:

. I was wondering if my mild porn viewing habits could effect my sexual experiences negatively in the future? How much is too much?


A lot of feminists say yes, they say that because porn is almost always designed to appeal to men so you are being taught to act too much like male during sex. They want you to not include power in sex, and they want you to focus on the female...on getting her off, not getting yourself off, they want you to think of sex like women typically do . They claim that porn miss teaches you because it does not get you to do what they want you to do.

Anyway, my view is that you are watching porn too much when you find yourself doing it when you would rather or need to be doing something else. If that happens then go do something else, if it does not then chill out.
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HesDeltanCaptain
 
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Sun 9 Aug, 2015 04:39 am
@anonymousgoat,
As many have said, "better you're watching people enjoying something positive than something like murder and violence." No one'd raise an eyebrow if you were watching violent content, but many are gonna go spare over you're looking at porn. Thus the way we've completely reversed what we object to. We object to pleasure and sexuality, condone violence.

As long as when you do start having sex you're not smacking your partner in the face with your penis you're fine. Smile I've seen that in newer porn and don't know where it's coming from, but I've NEVER had a lover ask me to do that and I've had some kinky playmates. Smile

Just keep in mind that while many people enjoy sex, even among those that do, it doesn't mean they wanna do it the moment you're alone with them. Smile And for at least a few more years, any sex you have at 14 with anyone else will be illegal. Shouldn't be but it is.
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HesDeltanCaptain
 
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Sun 9 Aug, 2015 04:40 am
@cherrie,
Google stereotype and spell checker. Wink
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