@oralloy,
Nine investigations about Benghazi puts the matter to rest. All investigations started with much hoopla, all ended with a big dud, the biggest dud led by Trey "Hit Man" Gowdy, who could only end up by saying, errrr.... judge for yourself, ('cuz this report got nothin' on her).
As for the "silent" mother, mind your own business. When I grew up it was understood in many families, Christian families, that the man did the talking to people outside the family on business and other matters. This was normal both in the larger American society and in the largely Italian and Greek immigrant neighborhood I grew up in where half my classmates didn't speak English in the home. It's only in the sixties and seventies that the social norm of the man doing the speaking for the family began to be questioned and began to change. And there are many religious Christians who hold to that behavior today.
Are you criticizing the Khans for exhibiting behavior that conservative Christians routinely exhibit? How attitudes change when the conservative word is put out to put the social media "hit" on people-criticizing them for behavior that conservatives do themselves. Such hypocrisy on the Right.