@Blickers,
Blickers wrote:
I thought revellete's example was quite clear. The person who thinks Clay Aiken sucks but can't tell you why he thinks so is an example of a person with an irrational dislike or hatred, and we've all known people like that.
Why you have to complicate this is a mystery.
The person in her example may seem to have an irrational dislike or hated of Clay Aiken, but it could just as easily be a case that he is unable to articulate his reasons beyond "Just look at him!"
Obviously there is something about Aiken's "look" that makes this person dislike him so much. Maybe it's his red hair and pale skin which the individual associates with a certain type of person. Maybe it's the simpering smile he so often wears. Maybe it has nothing to do what-so-ever about how he looks but the person is too verbally limited to simply say "Because his voice and the songs he sings suck!" Or maybe it's because Aiken is gay, this person knows it, dislikes him for it, but won't admit it.
You seem to have missed that george referred to revelette's
definition as defective
Quote:An uncompromising and severe dislike maintained by an individual that is incomprehensible even to the one who maintains it.
However, I think you have addressed the argument that I would have been made, that the example was defective.
I feel quite confident that this person actually comprehends why he dislikes Akin. The inability to express his reason doesn't necessarily mean there is none. And if I am right and he comprehends why he dislikes Aiken then by revelette's own definition it is not a case of irrational hatred.
Think about it. How many cases are you aware of where someone actually doesn't comprehend why they dislike something? You may think their reason is ridiculous, stupid or even evil, but that is not the definition of the term (although one might think otherwise by observing its usage in this forum)
The definition provided is only defective in the sense that it assures that the term can almost never be properly used, and that's not truly a defect simply proof that the term is overused and most often improperly.
I believe part of george's argument is that because the observer can't comprehend why the person wouldn't like something or someone doesn't mean they can't, and if they can, by definition, it's not irrational.
Quite often in this forum opinions are categorized as irrational because the person categorizing thinks the reason the other person has given for it is ridiculous, stupid or even evil, and not even because they are incapable of articulating what they comprehend their reason to be.