don't worry... it was a blow at myself... if you ever read eny of my stuff... i always do dumb things when I am drunk....
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Do you ever get drunk, start flirting with a guy, and then at the end of the night, after he's been hanging around hoping against hope that he'll get you in the sack, you run out and go home alone?
That was my saturday night. Damn it.
kickycan wrote:Do you ever get drunk, start flirting with a guy, and then at the end of the night, after he's been hanging around hoping against hope that he'll get you in the sack, you run out and go home alone?
That was my saturday night. Damn it.
Ouch. No phone number at least? I found through trial and error, instead of hanging out with the girl all night hoping to get a number, or go home with her, ask her for her number pretty soon into it...if she says yes, you can leave her alone and not worry about f'n it up...if she says no, you don't have to worry about wasting your time with her and move on. Plus you come across more confident, while at the end of the night (closing time) every guy in there is scrambling for a last minute hookup.
That is probably good advice, Slappy. I didn't ask for the number, because she was pretty damn drunk and seemed like she was pretty loose, and that made me focus on trying to hook up for a one-night stand. Since I was drunk, I had tunnel vision, and was only focusing on trying to get her to come home with me. I live only a couple blocks from the bar, so I thought I had a good shot. Oh well, at least I got to gaze hungrily at her rack for a couple hours.
I'll tell you what attracts me to men Aimeemarie123, it used to be sauve good looks ( in fact a young robert de niro would do very nicely) now it's intelliginece, charm, wit, personality, ambition, big bank account, indepence and then lastly looks and thats my list in exactly that order. Looks are worth **** after a while absolute ****.
Now i still have dreams of De Niro they way he was in Mean streets or Johnny Depp but honestly humour and money are very seductive not to mention intelligence. If some one's a smart ass looker they must get lost, unless you just looking for hot sex. Oh and the fat girl thing get over it, if somebody is that superficial trust not a hell of a lot is gonna change them and yeah they'll probably dig you cos you cute but not for long as i said conencting on the physical level only is really only good for one night stands or very brief relationships.
I'm not saying go find the ugliest man you can find but don't be suckred by the pretty boys either.
Great! Another gold digger...
hey if you look that only fourth on my list.
Well, that's life. Guess that's one reason my first BMW helped me get at least a couple girls naked. Sad, but true.
Well, not sad for me!
The fact some people think that way, I meant. Of course, I don't think you can help being attracted to $$.
well as long as the dollars are attached to some one intresting I'm not complaining.
tagged_lyricist wrote:I'll tell you what attracts me to men Aimeemarie123, it used to be sauve good looks ( in fact a young robert de niro would do very nicely) now it's intelliginece, charm, wit, personality, ambition, big bank account, indepence and then lastly looks and thats my list in exactly that order. Looks are worth **** after a while absolute ****.
Now i still have dreams of De Niro they way he was in Mean streets or Johnny Depp but honestly humour and money are very seductive not to mention intelligence. If some one's a smart ass looker they must get lost, unless you just looking for hot sex. Oh and the fat girl thing get over it, if somebody is that superficial trust not a hell of a lot is gonna change them and yeah they'll probably dig you cos you cute but not for long as i said conencting on the physical level only is really only good for one night stands or very brief relationships.
I'm not saying go find the ugliest man you can find but don't be suckred by the pretty boys either.
<counting> 7 out of 8 ain't bad. Sorry about the bank account.
I agree with tagged lyricist...
on money, I'd put it about #8, long after intelligence, wit, curiosity, well, all sorts of things, like cherishing, but I would put it in there.
See, I didn't, and learned the hard way.
Money and ambition are a little bound together now in my revised list. My hub was ambitious, but I did the paying for a bunch of years. Which affected my own dreams.
Anyway, personality and active intelligence beat looks, except.... for the eyes. Eyes will out.
well, I have the unfortunate experience of wanting a guy who can support himself... that means you have to have a job. I was with jason with no job and trust me when I say I am looking for a guy to take me out on a date where I DON'T PAY. sad but true all of my feminist ethics have gone out the window... I have never been on a date where the guy paid... well gr took me to a club and paid my cover charge one night... oooo 5 bucks. now thats a date.
I might sound superficial but thats what I want.
as for leading a guy on all night and then not going home with him, I did that to gr on saturday night, I got him all worked up and rubbed up against him and then I went home with kristen... he deserved it! that is the only time I have ever done that.
Self supporting is definitely in the plus column.
I have no clue about dating... all i know is that it sucks.
aimeemarie123 wrote:well, I have the unfortunate experience of wanting a guy who can support himself... that means you have to have a job. I was with jason with no job and trust me when I say I am looking for a guy to take me out on a date where I DON'T PAY. sad but true all of my feminist ethics have gone out the window... I have never been on a date where the guy paid... well gr took me to a club and paid my cover charge one night... oooo 5 bucks. now thats a date.
I might sound superficial but thats what I want.
Hey, some guys work but just don't have a whole lot of savings at the end of each month. I paid for a damn honeymoon in Ireland that I really couldn't afford. THAT was a date. What I'm getting at is that it isn't so much a matter of how much money a guy has, but how they choose to spend it. $5 US is about $6.80 CDN. For that, I could have done some frugal shopping and made you a nice home-cooked dinner with candles, as long as you brought the wine. I don't think it's so much about the money, aimeemarie, more about the guys you end up with.
Ironically, I'd like to go out with a girl who pays for everything too...women are an expensive hobby.
