@Kolyo,
"Okay, first of all you have quoted a fragment of what I said, not the full sentence.
But I'll be glad to explain:"
Yes, I only cited a segment of your statement because I was being lazy and I hope you would do exactly what you did do by explaining everything.
"If I don't believe in an afterlife, then I have to accept that a poor person (very poor, think Calcutta) will never know anything else but suffering in the entirety of his existence. There will be no magical pay-off for him after death. His life is going to suck -- end of story. That's reality, and as someone who believes our one life is "it", I have to accept that. And if I'm a decent, compassionate person I'm going to be bothered by that. I may even be motivated to do something to right that wrong.:
Here is one of the many items I am confused about in your statements. For one, If you don't believe in an after life why do you feel that some people suffering will not change? Who is to say to that a persons life and circumstance will not differ later, or grow worse or better? Maybe others will be inspired to change it?
'On the other hand, if I do believe in an afterlife, my belief system allows me to pretend that not all of his existence is going to be miserable. I can say: "well, the bad dream that is his life will pass eventually, and he'll rest forever in the bosom of Abraham." By thinking that, I am able to deny the injustice of things. I am able to accept savage inequalities -- to accept things like the intentional blinding of Indian street urchins, depicted in Slumdog Millionaire -- because I can tell myself that those miserable people will be compensated for their suffering in the afterlife. I can tell myself the universe is righteous and not feel compelled to improve it."
Why do you need to pretend" By consciously pretending isn't one admitting to oneself that one are lying to oneself? The universe from my point of view is indifferent and if that holds water then it is there from that point that I most deal with it and not pretend otherwise. It's the knowing that may, or may not, help me to change my circumstances, But I need the truth as far as i can discover to do that.
think of it as getting directions to get to a place, will accurate information serve you better or misinformation to get you to that place you want to go especially if given the chance?
"On the other hand, if I do believe in an afterlife, my belief system allows me to pretend that not all of his existence is going to be miserable. I can say: "well, the bad dream that is his life will pass eventually, and he'll rest forever in the bosom of Abraham." By thinking that, I am able to deny the injustice of things. I am able to accept savage inequalities -- to accept things like the intentional blinding of Indian street urchins, depicted in Slumdog Millionaire -- because I can tell myself that those miserable people will be compensated for their suffering in the afterlife. I can tell myself the universe is righteous and not feel compelled to improve it.
Therefore, not believing in an afterlife makes me a better, more ethical person."
there are people who believe in an after life and they are just as ethical as the next guy. I just don't understand why you need all the baggage of pretending to achieve your end?
Isn't empathy, logic and reason and a desire to be happy enough? If others make you happy doesn't it stand to reason that their well being is important to you because you benefit from their existence? Are there no positives things in life as you see it?