No, Cinn...it isn't mutually exclusive, but it IS redundant.
I am looking splendid. Just returned from another Christmas party. Black silky slacks & matching camisole under a crimson silk wrap blouse with black "leaf" embroidery. Same black beaded shoes I wore the other night. Antique brass necklace with leaf design, ruby & jet beads. Matching earrings. And my new white/yellow gold ring with a large garnet and small white diamonds. (Got the ring in August in Grand Cayman....a steal at $150.)