The Lovely Bride isn't too crazy about this either. She thinks that Reggie's wife
looks down on us. She'd rather have us dress as we normally would for a
wedding and to heck with them. I pretty much agree, but I'm not happy with
the idea of looking out of place.
So whaddya think?
Funny thing is, when Reggie and Appollonia got married back in '75 or so, the
ushers (of which I was one) wore white tuxes with black trim, fire-engine red
ruffled shirts and black velvet butterfly bow ties. At the reception, the
appetizers were brought in under a flaming arch to the tune of "Disco Inferno".
Or simply wear a black tie with your suit. It didn't say, Tux requested - it said Black Tie and then just act dumb.
his sort of ties into my question - do you want to go to a black tie required wedding?
cuz "required" is quite a different word on those invites than preferred or requested
No Functional Way
Why did I think it was "requested"?
"Required" IS a bit much.
How big of a deal would it be for you to not go?
edit: Oh, I was going by the title. Post body said "required."