I dont have a problem with those games at all, those games are a lot of fun
Yes we know about you Hawkeye<grin> but this was not a game set up ahead of time with safe words and so on.
The drunk woman/girl was winging it with no warning ahead of time to her boyfriend of her plans and then having the nerve to ask on this site if she had been rape or not.
Now as far as your situation I am sure that some of the people
on this website would consider the games you and your wife and other female partners play would be enough to have the women seized and placed into involuntary treatment programs and you placed behind bars.
The women being victims of past traumas that you are taking advantage of.
The fact that a large percent of all women have rape fantasies is beside the point to these people as only sick women would wish to have those kinds of encounters as far as they are concern.
We have the sex police once more gaining power in the private sexual relationships of men and women however this time not in the name of religion but in the name of females victimization.
Telling us in detail the steps that need to be taken in our love making in our own bedrooms to keep us safe from them charging us with crimes.