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Fri 31 Oct, 2014 04:34 pm
Try to solve this, i got number of a girl which i really like and i told her about my feelings to her and that i really want to be with her she smiled at me and hugged me then we kissed eachother on the cheek and were hugging eachother for 15 Sec then i went away absolutely happy about whole damn day i spent with her.... Btw we live in differend cities like 1500km away. So after i arrived in my city i texted her, everything was fine, next day i called her everything was fine, next days i texted her twice but got no answer and next day i called her but she said that she cant talk right now, so i wrote her long message with words like what is happening and told her that if she dont like me she should say it now. She texted me craziest thing ive ever seen (she wrote that she dont want me to be her boy, but friend!!!) Wtf is this guys, can someone explain me this ****
please ? Cause im so damn confused right now :/
I have no damn idea why she started acting like absolutely differend person. Sorry for my english.
Please people reply me if u know atleast a bit what to do or what does it mean.
@Jeffrey1111,
What do you mean, ****? Crazy? Take her at her word.
A girl hugs you and you somehow own her?
@ossobuco,
No man, but i told her that i really like her and she said the same thing, and few days later she was like totality diff person
@Jeffrey1111,
Jeffrey1111 wrote:
No man, but i told her that i really like her and she said the same thing, and few days later she was like totality diff person
Welcome to the real world. You better get used to this happening. I am guessing you are aged about 14, or maybe older in a traditional society?
@contrex,
Actually im 19, but this kind of reaction never happened to me.
@Jeffrey1111,
You need to respect her.
1. Quit being creepy
2. Quit objectifying her
3. Quit telling her things that she didn't ask for
@soundsighted,
So if i tell girl that i like her im creepy then ? I know that i failed cause i was too pushy but it was only be cause k really liked her and i just had to say it...
@Jeffrey1111,
Quote:So if i tell girl that i like her im creepy then ? I know that i failed cause i was too pushy but it was only be cause k really liked her and i just had to say it... Sad
You can't just tell girls things if they didn't ask you a question. One thing you should do is talk to her about clothes and fashion, but don't be creepy by complementing her. Just talk about clothes and fashion. But respect her space.
@soundsighted,
Ok man, thx for advertise but its probably too late for me anyway, but i just cant understand why she changed her mind because as i said before when i texted and called her i havent said anything like i love her or anything like that it was just classic chitchat nothing more. And i even havent said anything like i cant wait to meet u again but SHE asked me when i will arrive to the city where we met eachother again.
@Jeffrey1111,
Is there Anyone who can give me some tip what to do ? Please :/
@Jeffrey1111,
Yes, I can give you advice: Don't do anything! She does not like you in
a romantic manner. Accept and respect that and move on! Period!
There is nothing else to say or to do! Leave her alone!
@CalamityJane,
What do u mean by saying romantic manner ?
@Jeffrey1111,
She doesn't have anywhere near the "feelings" towards you as you have told her you have for her. She doesn't want to deal with you, or so it appears from your account. She said she only wished you to be a friend, not a boyfriend. Believe her. Don't pester her.
This happens.
@ossobuco,
But man i wrote that she said, she likes me too, but after few days when she arrived to her own city same did i, she changed somehow, sometimes i think its cause we are really far away from eachother but im not sure, because i cant be with her everyday, what do u think dude, may i be right ?
@Jeffrey1111,
No, you are not right!! Give it a rest and leave that girl alone.
@Jeffrey1111,
You could be right that once she got home she realized that she didn't want to have a long-distance romance. Or maybe she realized that her romantic feelings were just something temporary.
In any case, she does not want a romantic relationship with you now.
She is willing to be a friend.
So - you can be a friend, or you can leave her alone.
@Jeffrey1111,
Jeffrey1111 wrote:But man i wrote that she said, she likes me too,
Possibly she did not want to have a difficult conversation right then and there.
@Jeffrey1111,
I am not a dude. I'm an older woman. You can listen to me and others here or not.
@ehBeth,
First nice and usefull answer, thank you
I have to say that i feel better now.
@contrex,
Well... That would be kinda strange
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