@hawkeye10,
Quote:The law is organized so that unappreciated advance is a criminal matter. But how is a man supposed to know if an advance is desired until he tries it?
How about asking first?
Isn't that the point of "Yes means Yes"?
The adult home owner, who raped a demented resident in her mid-90's, shouldn't have known whether his sexual contacts were desired or not until he tried it? That was an acquaintance rape. The woman was too cognitively impaired to consent and she was selected for her vulnerability.
The frat boy who rapes an incapacitated female, he's just met, and made sure consumed enough alcohol to knock her out, or significantly cloud her consciousness, shouldn't know whether his sexual contacts are desired or not, until he tries it? That's an acquaintance rape. The woman was too impaired to consent and she was selected because of her vulnerability.
The executive who was just convicted of drugging and raping a woman in a hotel room, put the woman, he had met on a dating site, into a vulnerable state where she could not resist--do you think he even cared whether his sexual contacts were desired or not?
Sexual predators, that small group of men that commit most of the rapes, don't care about consent, and they don't care whether their sexual contacts are wanted or not.
There is no "war on mens sexuality"--most men don't rape, they are able to recognize when certain types of contact are unwanted by verbal or behavioral feedback from the partner, and they pay attention to it, and they don't want to force contact on an unwilling partner, or a partner who is not aware of what she's doing. And, they know enough to
ask whether a type of contact is desired.
The law goes after the sexual predators who ignore consent.
You confuse "mens sexuality" with the way you operate. Even back in high school, you apparently tried to get young females drunk, fast, by spiking punch with particularly high octane alcohol, to chemically alter their inhibitions, reduce their resistance, and make it easier for you to get into their panties. Even back then, you were a predator, Hawkeye, and you still think like one.
Quote:The law is set up to make the man wrong any time a woman decides to make him wrong.
The law defines criminal behaviors--it's not the woman who makes him wrong, it's his own behavior that makes him wrong, when it violates the law. It's the state, not the woman, that lodges charges and prosecutes, when they believe a law has been violated.
The law is not "unfair"--it's designed to deter and punish rapes, rapes of both males and females, but it's hardly surprising that you, in particular, would see that as "unfair", given your own predatory predilections.