@ehBeth,
Ok, so he was your boss? You could've just said that without all the riddles.
if he was sexually harrassing you, that's one thing but you haven't said that he was. He's still a human being. Like I said probably nervous to ask you out. What part of laughing in someone's face don't you understand as being hurtful and insultive? If there was some older woman I really liked a lot and she laughed in my face, I'd be devestated.