@blatham,
Still in San Francisco, but thinking a lot about the high property, sales, income and capital gains taxes.Meanwhile I enjoy myself.
Opinions about everything vary a great deal across this country and society. I know of no objectively provable "right" way to think about most hotly debated issues in the country. Implicit in our freedoms of thought and expression is the obligation to tolerate those who disagree. By tolerate I mean do no unwarranted harm and do not judge their overall worth as people solely because of one or two features - whether they are black, brown or white; Democrat or Republican; religious or irreligious; supporters or opposers of gay marriage, abortion or any of the other hotly debated issues of the day. I don't detect a great deal of that tolerance in our public discourse today, and I believe a great deal or it - perhaps a disproportionate share of it - comes from progressive liberals, including perhaps, yourself.
By progressive elites I refer to the dominant elements of the print & broadcast media and to the academic establishment (less so in the hard sciences), as well as the political groupies who attend them They have a lot of influence in many quarters of the country (though I suspect it is fading a bit now). These are the folks who welcomed Elizabeth Warren as an obvious Cherokee Indian and who champion a heavily regulated state (with themselves as the chief consultants of course). Rham Emannuael's sputtering brother at Penn State (a chief author of Obamacare is a good example. Their obvious intolerance for those who don't think or believe as they do gives the lie to their self declared progressive objectivity. Their insistence on providing free contraception to women (the standard methods coat less than $40/month ) as a mandatory part of health care insurance, and their demands that abortion inducing drugs be included as mandatory alternatives, even for religious groups which oppose it in principle, tell you all you need to know about their willingness to tolerate others with different views and outlooks.
I don't believe that "the demonization of gay people" is a good thing for anyone and I would call that serious intolerance. That doesn't however require that one enjoy or favor all elements in what may be called gay culture. That said some elements of fundamentalist Christianity (and Islam) are indeed seriously intolerant of homosexuality. In precisely the same way, many self-styled progressives are very seriously intolerant of religious people, even those who are decidedly not intolerant of homosexuals. That unfortunately is little noticed or commented on in our media.
You use the term "Religious Right with fairly high frequency, and I assume you see then as intolerant. What difference is there between theirs and the prejudices of their opposite numbers in our social/political spectrum?