SEX LIFE OFF TRACK

Maybe it is your constant derogatory comments about his disabilities caused by his illness.

According to your many posts on the topic, you have had no respect for him for many years because of this.

Is your nonphysical attractiveness also unchanged or have you neglected that portion of your relationship?

Perhaps this is the reason?
Are you aware that many forum members read and recall your posting history? Or are you forgetting what you have posted... the same threads and issues over and over while not listening to the replies?

Remind me never to mess with you girl.

seriously? he's supposed to be sexually attracted to a woman who puts him down all the time?

pffffft

If I recall correctly, you stated he had a brain injury...maybe cerebral palsy. You've said he doesn't treat your children well and asked if people with disabilities are mean. If he sustained a brain injury, he may not necessarily be capable to process things the way you do. He may not be doing it on purpose. If you married him before/after the injury and withhold your promise of "in sickness and in health" I can appreciate that. It's gotta be challenging. But the way you present it comes across as you not understanding his deficits, and wanting for his responses to be what you need. Maybe it is you who doesn't understand. Do you really think a brain injury has had no effect on him? Perhaps you're in denial. If he developed the brain injury after marriage and you are holding him to the same standard as before...in my opinion abuse.