@Frank Apisa,
Quote: I understand what GB is getting at...and I suspect you do also.
I don’t know… Lot’s of nasty language, very little specifics... I suspect you don't have a clue either.
Quote:Mostly, they caused me to pity you. Shallowness of personality I normally tolerate easily. It does, however, causes me some discomfort when the person displaying it seems to me to be otherwise intelligent. You seem to be intelligent...but in my opinion you are one of the most shallow personalities on A2K.
Right… Do you tolerate easily your own use of insults, generously dished out to whoever disagrees with you; your nasty “why aren’t you somewhere in a train crying” to JoeN; your calling of everyone disagreeing with mass spying “anti-american”; your constant demeaning of scores of other posters by any mean at your disposal? Do you have patience for that? Because I don’t. I have been on the receiving end of your insults and snide remarks too, so I know for a fact that your “lack of tolerance for shallowness” is crap.
Quote: As sincere as your comment that you did not understand what your American friends meant when they told you to tell me "to suck their cocks?"
LOL... That was fun.
Honestly, if I have indeed bullied you, I am sorry. Of course, I seriously doubt I have actually bullied or offended you, but that’s for you to say... Glitter seems to think I have. You won’t say yes or no… And as you say so often, even if you answered the question, only you would know whether you replied truthfully…
After all, you have been saying again and again that this was “fun”, that I was “playing your game”, “please keep it coming”, “you’re my toy”, etc. etc. One can find hundreds of such mentions in your posts, saying that you actually enjoy our exchanges and want them to continue forever. And not only with me: that’s your standard technique. You keep taunting people to enter in one-to-one cockfights. And once they are in it, you systematically encourage them to keep it up...
You see, I took that behaviour at face value, and honestly thought you were enjoying yourself… Little did I know that all these brash statements were in fact hiding your deep sense of victimization, and represented as many calls for help. You are too proud to admit it, and Glitter is onto something right here: this is a very masculine trait. Your masculine pride makes you unable to call it quit, even when these exchanges actually take a heavy toll on your peace of mind. Even when you are deeply deeply offended, the show must go on, the parade never stops, or you would lose all sense of self-esteem...
But now it seems that you have seen the dark side of these exchanges. You realized now that you were wrong to encourage them. I think that’s progress, and I thank Glitter for that. Even though she spoke mainly to me, you realized that a lot of what she said could apply to you… Well done!