@mandophon,
mandophon wrote:
ight, no mentioning the past.
******** Hows this. " Hey *girls name, I'd like to take you out to a movie and dinner this weekend, would that interest you?"
then if she says shes interested, then I ask her which day works for her better.
(******) man, that's what a girl friend of mine came up with...and I was going in pieces...what a f*cking idiot...
Like others have already said...YOU pay for this date!!!!
If a guy asked me out for the first time, and then later texted me prices, I'd be WTF? I wouldn't put it past me to just text back saying forget the whole thing. It isn't being cheap, it's the fact if a gentleman (you) asks a lady out, you are TAKING her on a date. This is definately not hanging with the guys.
Some other time she's treat you.
Also, as said, you are Waaaaaay overthinking this.
Also, as I suggested, don't ask her if she's interested in going out....that gives her the option of saying no, as the choices are yes, or no.
You say "We talked about going out (statement). Would Saturday or Sunday be better for you for mini-golf and a movie?"
Also, knock it off about how you last played mini-golf when you were 6 and you sucked at it. You're not 6 years old anymore. I think you can handle taping the ball into the dinosaurs mouth.
chai(who doesn't like mini-golf and a movie?)Tea
This is the mini golf about a mile from my house. It's rockin' 7 days a week.