I met a man the day before I moved half way across the country. We spent maybe 5 minuets talking at the airport when we met. We have texted for 8 months. Now he wants to fly to my new state to visit. He knows no one else here and wants to stay for 4 days (in a hotel). I agreed. But now Im wondering, if a guy flys half way across the country to meet a girl what does it mean? Does it mean he genuinely likes me? Or would a guy fly half way across the country just for the possibility of "getting some"? Since I agreed to his coming is that something he expects now?
I acknowledge your point. However, how is it any different from meeting a man I met at say the grocery store here for dinner? I dont know his mental health.
Granted, that may not be safe either. However, if I didnt go Id never meet anyone. I have to take some chances. Plus, my friends are only a call away if I need help.