@glitterbag,
All your "shoulds" are oxymorons. I live a pretty priviledged life, and have traveled to over 200 countries - equivalent to traveling around this planet over 30 times. I've seen more, experienced more, and have met and made friends all around the world.
Your assumption that I have a "chip on my shoulder" is so far off reality, your imagination is working over time.
Give it up! You're only making a fool out of yourself.
I wasn't "wronged." I bless the fact that my grandfather came to this country to give us a good life. Most of my family and friends have done very well in this country. Why would I have any grudge against the country that provided us with such riches?
My brother is now a Mayor of his town, and served two terms in the state legislature. BTW, he's an Opthalmologist, and so is his oldest daughter.
Yea, give up while you're so far behind.