You are thoughtful and caring, SCoates. Thank you.
(Did I get it right that time?)
Thanks also to littlek, ehBeth, Algis (what did that mean?), husker, farmerman, BBB, colorbook, George, dyslexia, Brand X, Ceili, fealola, mac11, dlowan, Raggedyaggie, Noddy and cavfancier. Your kindness means more than you know.
EhBeth and/or farmerman: can you describe "tinnitis"? That may be some of what I'm experiencing. (I forgot to ask the doctor about this.)
BBB, I am an avowed gun-hater. This has just made me even more so. But despite my frequent quoting of statistics (e.g., gun owners are 11 times more likely to harm themselves or their loved ones with a gun than to use it in defense,) my husband, son, and many of our male friends still have them. (Sigh. Must be a Southern/Texan thing. My son shoots rifles regularly as a Scout, even.)
The friend who owned the cabin was the shooter. He wanted to show my husband and son this "great" .44 magnum pistol that his partner (and co-owner of the cabin) kept out there. Little did he suspect when he unwrapped the gun that his partner had left it loaded & cocked. The minute he picked it up, it went off. Fortunately, he is a big advocate for gun safety himself, so he had it pointed away from everyone and at the floor. Everyone was shocked, no one more so than our friend. He was VERY angry at his partner and called him up immediately on the mobile phone to ask him why in hell he'd leave a gun lying around in that condition. Someone could have been killed! GRRRRRRR!!!!! His partner replied that an alligator had wandered up as far as the cabin door a few weeks back, and he wanted to make sure if one ever tried that again, he'd be ready. (Still a bad excuse in my book.)
I was standing about 4 feet away...same as everyone else. Ironically, I (the only gun-hater) was the only one affected. I REALLY, REALLY, REALLY hate guns. (Did I mention that?!) And I am NEVER going anywhere like that again, no matter how much my husband and son want me to.
Sheesh. I shoulda been at the Hyatt.