@neologist,
OK, Frank. I think you delude yourself. Not just you, but many.
You often claim I am afraid of consequences that may or may not be meted out by God as retribution for some unspecified sin. You rightly judge the perceived punishment as unspeakably cruel and can't imagine how any rational being could love such a God. And since millions have been so managed by the priesthood through the ages, it presents a perfectly good reason for you to discard the Bible as a provider of hope and/or guidance. I can't blame you; but have you ever asked yourself why the Bible writers insist that God's principle quality is love? How could that possibly fit with your world view?
Its a conundrum because the feared punishment is a myth. The early Jews did not believe in an afterlife. There could be no baking, boiling, frying or broiling. Nothing really to fear, at least nothing that any self respecting atheist or agnostic would fear. You live. You die. That's it. The lie of an afterlife, with dual eventualities of heaven/hell, is nothing but a management tool. Priests and kings have worked this implement for thousands of years. So you and I are in the same boat when it comes to this state of affairs.
Except you seem to apply some credence to the myth. And I submit your view of what you refer to as "the god" is a head in the sand reaction to a threat that does not even exist. Having judged "the god" according to your own standards, you focus entirely on passages which, left unexplained, bolster your position. The only payoff I can see from this line of reasoning is the freedom you have to choose for yourself what is good and what is bad, an ages old concept, don't you agree?
Perhaps you could benefit from a reexamination of your axioms and assumptions.