@JTT,
I think I myself have been brusquely treated by the said gent in the past, although no doubt it was a misunderstanding, or I might even have deserved it.
Nonetheless it is not an edifying spectacle to see you two tearing lumps out of one another.
I'll say no more on this for now, and return to my question which hinges on the correct use of the word "bribe".
Can you ask for a "bribe " to be paid to you? I maintain you can not.