@giujohn,
giujohn wrote:
I certainly will defend casual sex when someone explains why it needs defending.
No casual sex for me. Every time it happens I feel used. If there is no long term commitment then I am not interested at all.
Quality of life, not quantity of life.
Someone said the other day to me in a chat, oh I am safe... I always use a condom.
Well what about herpes, mono and many other nasty diseases? A condom won't protect you from them?
When I do meet the right person to have sex with I am not going to be a garbage dump of STD's. And, they will care enough to go with me and get tested "together".
If they do come up with some sort of disease then and only then will I decide it their love is worth contracting such a disease.
Sex is not worth ruining my quality of life.
I will NEVER take someone's word for it. People lie...