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Where is sozobe?

 
 
ossobuco
 
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Reply Tue 28 May, 2013 04:50 pm
@BillW,
Yes on that.

I talked with Joanne too, had no clue.
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farmerman
 
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Reply Tue 28 May, 2013 04:56 pm
@BillW,
yeh I do. I just have this gnawing feeling (not about Joanne) that I shoulda known and could have intervened.
My employees kids have grown up without a father and it woulda been neat to have him there at his kids HS graduation. The daughter was the class valedictorian and really gave a speech that shows her talents in writing and just communicating .
His son, a few years later, not so much. He is angry at his dad for leaving and I try to talk with him occasionally but Im getting a feeling that he blames me somewhat.

Joanned just appeared down in her various posts and PMs. (Not always though) sometimes she was , not manic, but full of almost disconnected ideas .
edgarblythe
 
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Reply Tue 28 May, 2013 04:57 pm
Joanne invited me to a2k. We had been getting good mileage from a thread on Abuzz, so when she made the move she extended the invitation. We were very friendly for a time, until her interests caused her to drift, but I feel we always had mutual respect. Her death caught me off guard, but, hell, every death takes me off guard. I would love to have met her.
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dlowan
 
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Reply Tue 28 May, 2013 05:02 pm
@farmerman,
It tends to take a lot of knowledge about suicide and intimacy with a person to pick such things up.....but you know that.

I know if I decided to kill myself nobody would be able to stop me. After 33 years doing what I do I know that I could easily miss the signs....or be unable to stop it even if I picked them up....because making an airtight safety plan or hospitalisation are no guarantees.

It's a horrible feeling, I know.
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sozobe
 
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Reply Tue 28 May, 2013 05:28 pm
@farmerman,
Sounds like you've remained in the kids' lives -- that's a valuable and admirable thing.
farmerman
 
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Reply Tue 28 May, 2013 08:29 pm
@sozobe,
not so much. I think theres a lot of unanswered guilt and nothing eleemosinery (sp?) about it. I like the kids, don't get me wrong , but my keeping handy for them is more for me I think.
Wow, that's a breakthrough for me, and you guys don't charge 250 bucks an hour
BillW
 
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Reply Tue 28 May, 2013 09:47 pm
@farmerman,
fm - I have always found that if I do things for me it benefits others as long as the action is altruistic - is that the right word, I don't know, don't think so - anyway, the desired meaning is evident and I do find it true true....
roger
 
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Reply Tue 28 May, 2013 09:59 pm
@BillW,
They used to call it "Enlightened self interest".
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farmerman
 
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Reply Wed 29 May, 2013 04:54 am
@BillW,
true. There are certain things Im not really great at dealing with so I dwell on em for longer than necessary I suppose.

Rog, in many instances I wouldn't know whether it was enlightened self interest or guilt-response until much later.
BillW
 
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Reply Wed 29 May, 2013 11:18 am
@farmerman,
"Enlightened" has a sense of pre-planned, I'll be damned if I plan anything, ha! One of my many foibles.....
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Wed 29 May, 2013 01:09 pm
@dlowan,
dlowan wrote:

I'm frustrated with both! A2k is no fun any more but Facebook is no replacement!


Aint that the damn truth.
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