@fresco,
Quote:Have you ever actually tried to teach kids ? I HAVE !
Yes, I have, Fresco, no capitals needed.
Quote:How many of them do you think have the brains and maturity to understand the difference between "appropriateness" and "correctness" given that most of the adult population (including some respondents on this thread) don't have a clue ?
In the limited, and "incorrect" sense you're thinking of not many, considering they are, what else, kids.
That a large chunk of the adult population doesn't have a clue really ought to clue you in. This is the same nonsense that POM [an English teacher at the college level] was ranting about - "kids don't know the subject of a sentence" - like they should be born knowing things that adults themselves are confused about, things POM herself [and all her teacher peers] are mightily confused about.
You keep putting quotes around correctness because you do realize that you're making a partially fatuous argument, the same one that has been made for centuries.
Quote:Think it out...the one's who do have that intellectual ability are the one's who can change register according to context. The rest need to be given a "survival kit" called "standard English" which will do the job.
Precisely what I described above. It's you, Fresco, that has to think it out. Kids have no problem recognizing polite language, nor do they have any trouble deploying it should they see the need.
It is completely fatuous to suggest that only Standard English contains the grammatical structures and collocations that are the measures of politeness. It is part and parcel of the same cockamamie notion that holds to the notion that Standard English is correct/grammatical while Nonstandard English is incorrect/ ungrammatical, even, even
colloquial.
[Did you read my reply to Dale Hileman on this very issue?]
I will agree with you, as I suspect that this might be your next argument, that kids are less likely to show the degree of deference that they did in past generations, but that has nothing to do with silly notions that Standard English will set them on the straight and narrow.
Quote:What goes on here is that questions are asked, usually by non-native speakers for a "quick-fix" decision on usage. It is the responsibility of respondents to give them a "best policy" answer, rather than engage in academic extrapolation over the range of nuances we call sociolinguistics.
You really can't begin to imagine, wedded as you are to these ideas of yours, how many times I've heard that bit of nonsense over the years, Fresco.
How is it at all responsible to continue the lie that Standard English is the best policy? It's not at all what we native speakers use for the vast majority of our own language.
Why should ESLs be prevented from having the same full range as native speakers? ESLs have to know the nuances of language in order to to be able to gain an understanding of language? How can such fundamental idea as this escape so many?
Of course they should be given accurate information as to how the English language really works, and that most certainly includes the caveat that there are a lot of people in positions of power who will attempt to lord their ignorance on language over people for spurious reasons.
All the best grammars of the day, all the best second language experts, all the top linguists, all the top corpus studies recognize this as the only sensible way to proceed no matter who is being taught a language or about a language.
The information described in the paragraph above has been posted numerous times here at A2K, and it illustrates just how deeply ingrained these nonsensical ideas about language are.