@Rockhead,
But as with my surgeon. Kansas person, guy I admire and I am slow to admire, but I see him with patients), I have hope, re kindness that is not a ploy.
Of course, all the rest of us are messed up too.
What I want, and I think he does too, given no baddie problems, is to talk in our short clinic visits. We cover the tests - he maintains my eyes, after all - but get some talk in.
One day, maybe a year ago, a million year old woman saw him first.
When I went in, I mentioned how interesting she was to me from the waiting room.
He said she was one of his favorite patients.
So, there are doctors and doctors.