why is it so hard to catch on the hints from females?

Join the crowd.

Best thing to do is to ask what they mean when they say something.

How do you know if you've had a Lot of opportunities so?.

yeah you right. I can do that.

I realize it once its to late or start thinking harder about what happens. like my other post, just know I messed up and missed out so much its not even worth trynna figure out why.

Nail 'em as soon as you see 'em . . . than these problems won't crop up.

thats a problem because its either to late or I never notice.

These must high speed women you're meeting.

high speed? maybe but then again you never know

Start listening for hints.
Start looking for looks.

Start making a few SUBTLE hints and looks of your own.

No sense in making the women do all the work.

But try listening first, they'll be stunned by the attention.

Joe(at least some of them will be.)Nation

thanks, Iisten but don't look. guess I gotta do both

Here's a suggestion: Stop staring at her tits.

If you stop staring at her body and fantasizing, the hints sink in quicker.

Wasn’t hard for me. Not hard at all!

yeah that's odd you say that but I make strong eye contact so I can't agree my focus is on her breast. I do agree it cab sink in quicker if I just focused even more on her words

I'm kidding with you ... trying humor ... a little levity. After all, shouldn't dating be fun? It's not supposed to be like making a career pursuit.

Here's a thought based on your previous posting: you seem to over-think things. Try lightening up a lot. Show yourself and the lady-of-choice a good time. You can't do that with all that stuff in your head. Listen to her words...watch her face...her body language. Learn about body language. You should not be swapping brain dumps. Body postures, gestures and eye placement is a language you really need to understand. Let's say it's over 75% of the communication. Missing something?

BTW, you wrote that you typed your first entry on A2K ... that long non-breaking paragraph - on a phone? Dude? Really?

hahaha. Cracked me up.

its cool, I understand what you saying but how can I over think it if its all real signs that she likes me? I mean it was for purpose of my own that's why I over thought about it because there was so much I had try to understand. yeah I typed it on my phone but it had to get copied as one whole thing because I didn't wanna re type it when I prolly should have, but how I see it some people will still understand it and others won't which will lead to them nagging me about it, but its cool.

It's mighty crowded in your head, huh?

You won't stop over-thinking this so I'll just suggest what I have so far and wish you well.

I'm all for simplicity. Try verifying what is going on by asking your friend what she feels.

Simplify... and verify.

nah its not hahaha. I got you on that simplify and verify. hopefully things don't make her upset because I don't want her to know I wanna know if she wants to be with me before I find out ahead of time if she wants to be with me before I ask if she has feelings for me. I suppose its only right to do so because its something that can either be said or left alone. it will be nice for her to like me more than a friend and me knowing that before I ask, but I have to stop all this sense I got my answer.

Stop it.

Just be.

I think you first need to be ok with yourself and instead your are sounding like a self windmill.

Take some time to like yourself, but don't rush that. None of us are perfect - that is not the object. Learn who you are.

Work on talking to others because you are interested in what they think, and give it a rest on what they might think about you.