@bossgirl04,
Quote:I'm not going to let the fear of getting sick make me a bitter, man hater
This is the difference between you and Bill
Fear much like the word hate, are two words I don't care for, they are non-existant to me.. Off course, pre-caution and dislike are
It's funny how people "talk" about themselves when replying to people, ie) really have a go, try to sway ones mind to what they believe in, instead of reading what the person is asking and answering on that note.
Anyways... Bossgirl.. As I said, you have an open mind.. Be wary that as such, you do not become a porn in this game of chess.. You will have to still have boundries, you will have to ensure he is fully aware of those and that, those can not be crossed.
It's like sometimes when you give a little, people take alot. Unless, they know just how far they can go.
They say girls look for a Daddy image, when looking for a partner, most little girls are "Daddy's princesses"..makes sense.
For a man to look for a "Daddy" image, I think alot of gay guys have done that, or bi-sexual men at some point.. I think that it's more that they want to feel owned, someone else in control, a tad helpless. I wonder therefore, whether sexually with you, if you were to take that control, how that would work, or change things? You say your sex life is good... Don't have to go into specifics of who is more dominant but it's just a thought for you..
Keep your emotions at check.. It's beautiful to love and be loved. It's not beautiful to be hurt and used.. Make sure that the "give" that you are giving, is never abused..