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Oh thank you so much for telling me your IQ, glad that made you feel better.

You shouldn't have to compete, if you just talk to her maybe???

oh geez don't fall back on you're work!!! it seems like you are just doing you're head with all the 'what ifs'...You need to stop this and take a chance, this is what relationships are all about Im sure you will do fine

You have a point

Sorry, the girl with the kid is neither A or B but a good friend of mine who is trying to sabotage my chances with A as a result of a joke she's pushing too far... sorry for being unclear

You're right: I have got to stop beating myself up over this