Re: Internet dating is bad for relationships
kickycan wrote:I think internet dating is perfect for someone who doesn't want a relationship. Most men, if they had the option, would want an endless stream of casual sex, without a lifelong commitment. And that is exactly what internet dating provides them. If the internet dating trend continues as it is now, eventually women will have to conform to the way men want things to be, and long-term relationships will be the exception, rather than the rule.
What do you think?
Well, I had the option of an endless stream of casual sex without a lifelong commitment. I still chose a lifelong commitment. Many other men I know have made the same choice.
People should be free to choose the type of life they want to live. There are advantages (for men) to a lifelong relationship. (Of course the endless stream of casual sex isn't so bad either).
I don't think the internet changes anything.
I also don't think that allowing people to live the way that makes them happiest is such a bad thing. You seem to be suggesting we should make men conform to the way you think things should be.
Let's let people do what want. Some men and some women will choose to live lives of wild sexual abandon, but many others will choose to pair up and life will go on.