@FOUND SOUL,
True.
I admit I could have been wrong on my instinct re the poster. Or quite right.
Still, my thoughts are similar, either way. Nothing wrong with masturbation, and talk honestly, which may end up with one of you walking, which might not be a bad thing. Living a marriage without talking is a tightwire that will break.
I have been both christian and non christian, and I think communication is important, also for either.