@reasoning logic,
Here is what I think mate...If you are interested in my opinions...And I am going to keep it between us as much as possible....
It seems to me, that at some point in your lifetime, you decided to stop challenging what you thought was incorrect, and what is correct...And you decided somehow, someway internally, that not challenging, but embracing what everyone else has to say is the best method...to come to your own conclusions...This is not to say you are incapable of doing this thinking upon your own...Because if your mind is strong enough to embrace millions of things you have been exposed to, in order to use this info to formulate an opinion based upon millions of perspectives...then you can flip it all around, and use your own thinking to decide your own thinking upon what millions of people have to say...
I will give you an example
Quote: I think that some of these opinions are way out there but everyone has different beliefs and it is their beliefs that are reality to them. Take for example what I shared with a coworker. "This video's point of view, "the best that I understood it but yet I was able to find a coworker who seemed to relate to how the boxer was thinking.
After you had your opinion about the video...You did not tell this coworker why you agree or disagree...And I think you did not challenge their perspective with Skepticism nor belief...But because you could not answer their point...You auto accepted their position as a valid one, and it went directly into your own thinking, and is now apart of the way you personally think...When it is OK to have an opinion...And either believe they are right or wrong, and why...I don't think you know you do this...And you should, cause that is what makes you, you...
I will give you another example...Most atheists deny a God....but they still argue in favor of having an innate purpose... because if we did not, there is no reason why they even have opinions as to why they are right or wrong...If there is no higher reason, there is also no reason why anyone has an opinion...at all...
The only other possibility is that you are not really an Atheist-Christian but really an Agnostic...Which also makes sense why I have said you sound like one in the past...
But in any event, I tell you all of this so that you can free your mind of thinking everyone's opinions must be as valid as your own thinking just because...And you should be able to think for yourself, as I know you can, like I said above...
And there is no reason why your mind must be perverted by atheists, Agnostics or theists alike...And you should be able to decide what you agree with from Skepticism, or do not...Or do not know...What you do not agree with Skepticism, do not know, or do not agree with...Things you are completely unsure of, if any...Or have rejections of both...Or the things you agree with because of beliefs, do not know, or do not agree with...
And I think the path you are now going down you are realizing this...
And you are not allowing anyone else's mind or thoughts to pervert your own...And that includes me...
But like I said, I am willing and able to help you, if you are interested in doing it...
That is why I said I think I understand you better...
That is what I think you are doing in your own mind...
It sounds like it is being open-minded...As I know you can be...But if you are auto accepting positions other than your own thinking, in a sense, you are allowing millions of others to brainwash you, or pervert your own mind, when you can learn to understand why and how you agree or do not, and why you do agree or don't...And these opinions are your own, and should be more important than anyone else's cause that is what makes you yourself...And what you have to offer...When people ask you about things, they are not interested in what millions have to say, but what YOU have to say...And you are raping your own mind of this ability right now...
Because at some point you must have said to yourself, this is better than to have a rejection or belief...From your own thinking, and I think that is much worse...
Like I said, it is OK to be you, and have a rejection or belief, and then take into account what others have said to be open-minded...So long as the opinion came from you...But if you are accepting their views as valid just because...You are not skeptical of their opinions, nor accept because of beliefs...
And are not freely thinking upon your own, as to why you agree or not...Using Skepticism, or Beliefs, or rejections of both...And then being open-minded about hearing otherwise to help formulate what you believe is correct or not...But as long as you know what you are thinking about it...
I hope this helped you get a good idea of how I see the way you see things mate....