Culture is a difficult one because people are forced but mostly, through fear of what will happen
You know, I have 3 daughters and 1 son across the World and they have been with me for years. I'd like to think that I have in-deed helped them grow and understand the way life could be, can be.. I certainly am watching them grow into fanstastic people that are happy and that makes me happy.
I'm at a loss as to why people can't be helped more and end up in a life of Prison, I guess he feels more home there than out in the real World now.
See, If I was to listen to those stories, with my (heart), I would feel very down, sad, angry even.. It's not something that I would personally, take an interest in to try to nit pick it and establish facts.. It would be something that I would be interested in to understand what happened and leave it at that. But, that's just me.
I take people as I find them FS, and you are lovely.
Did not hear from you, in a few days, mate...All well I hope! Glad to hear from you again