@izzythepush,
I don't know about these petitions Izz. I still don't believe he was trying to provoke Spades... I don't think he was at that pool either
But, to just converse somewhat.
JC has a good heart, very good. Spades is 30 and he has to be able to handle himself by now at that age, he is not a child.
Again, if JC had put an evil grin then he's dissing, but he didn't ... He may be wary of Spades based on his past experience, but if he was out to laugh and poke fun, he would have added more .. Or more importantly he wouldn't have asked Spades why he would feel un-comfortable in the manner in which he asked...
Or he's cheeky and we all get that, lets face it. And, if that's the case, he still wasn't being offensive to Spades.
Gawd, I can give it sometimes in that cheeky field can't help myself, it's my personality being a Gemini.
So if you feel he's one of the loveliest people and you have seen no evidence so far of bullying, give him the benefit of the doubt, I think Spades did.
We all rally around and stick up for Spades I get that. Spades you say you can stand up for yourself, but ya get friggen angry as that "stand up" , not cool... So we come in....
Lastly, JC would have written, and can you visualise us all in that pool Spades, want to join? You don't have to be Gay. If he was giving ****... cheeky or trying, one of the two. See what I mean?