Question to those who do or do not doubt Christianity

Not too sure when exactly the Olympics start. I heard the figure of 34 days time bandied about the other day.

It is OK to think about sex and its OK if you like lap dancing but it can be humiliating to the other person if they do not want to here those thoughts about their self.

What confused me was at first you said that you wouldn't mind a lap dance and then you changed your story about liking lap dances and then you said that she was like a sister and then she was not like a sister,

I just want to fully understand too, so I want be so confused about it all. let's just drop the part about her lap dancing and move on to someone else doing it. If you think that it is wrong or immoral would you please point out exactly what is wrong in the video below?

I have never wanted one and certainly not from someone who looked like my sister, that would seem kind of freaky.

I have never thought about it before until you brought it up.

That is a nasty thought in my opinion.

I find that rather odd being that you brought it up, I myself find it arousing but I just prefer sex myself without all the wishful thinking.

If you like lap dances, I see nothing wrong with that unless you can point out to me where it is wrong. I have been taught that it is wrong but who am I to tell you it is immoral if it makes you happy and you are not hurting anyone.

Again Who am I to tell you what is wrong I personally would not have sex with my own mother but if someone likes that and their mother likes it I just do not know what to say other than they may have some problem children if she becomes pregnant.

I know of a brother and a sister and I find that nasty but again who am I to tell them anything?

Tell me Ryan what is wrong with just having sex with someone you find very attractive and you are not in love with them or yet?

I think such things are disgusting. Honestly. Give me a natural girl anyday.

I think that is very close to porn. Not sure if Spades will appreciate it RL.. Can't answer for him though, naturally.

About the only thing Ryan will not appreciate is that it is another dude and not him. Laughing

You must have forgotten about his enthusiastic replies to this video in the past.

They had ALL the say. They used me like you use the remote control.

Sheesh!! These closet misogynists are very amusing.

The Church says that if you make a sincere and honest repentance and say three Our Fathers and three Hail Marys the slate is wiped clean and if you cark it before falling into temptation again you go straight to Heaven.

There are other subtleties for those who might be carking it at the wrong time.

I will tell you in a thread that I am about to start. I will title it, "The greatest sin committed by the church".

The Church says that if you make a sincere and honest repentance and say three Our Fathers and three Hail Marys the slate is wiped clean and if you cark it before falling into temptation again you go straight to Heaven.

...I do not think it is ok, to think about lap dancing, as you do not even know the person, you are doing it with...And you are doing it, to gratify yourself...

Something like...I think she is pretty, and I bet men would love a lap dance from her!

I said, she is like a sister, because at times I think of her like one...When you pointed this out, about how I think about, her beauty, in the way, I do...I agree with you, And I clearly, do not look at her, like a sister, at all...And not someone, who is just there, for a sexual image thing, either...So what I am saying is, I guess, you are right, I really do not think of her as a sister at all...Nor someone to just try to gratify myself to...But somewhere in the middle

(like button) If you get angry back Spades, you are lowering yourself to that persons standards (not putting anyone down here, as something you may have said may have offended them to have written that unless they say what, who knows) but in any event, that's my thoughts. In addition to that. It's a waste of energy and they win... Why give someone that satisfaction?

For me I'm placid. But, rub me totally the wrong way and I can like anyone else retaliate but more alongs the lines of proving them wrong, or just totally ignoring that person .. Who ever is in your life should be worth it on the same side, respect you at least. Or don't let them in.

I take it you are anti-lap dancing?

When was that?

Is it that wrong?

You are not having sex with the person right?

That's the main vow isn't it? And, if she, who ever she is, conducts it, obviously for money, then that's her income, her living and she is doing it willingly. Not-with-standing, I also feel that some, do it as they don't feel highly of themselves and see it as who cares, easy money and I am not having sex.

In that instance, if you could read body language, I'd offer her more cash and walk away if I was a man.

Is masterbating and visualising a particular woman without porn or with a photo, any in-different?

Are you meant to be celebrant?

Why would got give you urges? To see if you are tempted? He gives them so that in union with someone you love, you feel it 10 fold, in that love. How do you close / shut that off totally whilst you are waiting to find that person?

Hun, they aint going to let this die yet but I will kill it soon Smile Cause part of this conversation involves me.

Can you not see why that statement, is still not right? You bet men would like to get a lap dance from me? Again, it's cool... I know that you mean well. But, it also suggest to me that you really, really, really, need to find someone to "love" as you wish, not just sex and have some.

I am also aware that your visualisation is more extensive than a normal person you have a 'gift' to live in a world of not seeing things just black and white and so, you can visualise.

This would be their reply, I think.. I am not a sister, I am like a sister, but no, I am definately not like a sister, but now someone you think sexually about, but in-between. The question would then be what the, is in-between? The answer is "attracted" and this is why they are saying what they are saying, because you let a cat out of the bag... One that alot of men would keep to themselves ... Smile

Thank you for seeing me as a friend Spades Smile I think Brad Pitt is attractive, and I love French Accents but I would never act on anyone, as I am in love.

Don't you think that although you are a romantic that you should consider meeting this "love" of yours in your next life, instead of now and having a life, and a wife, in this life? I think that is where all of the confusion is coming form.

You know I looked at that Video of the lap dance and the big boobs, laughed a bit, went, ewee fake boobs, life is about fun, laughter, excitement and reality..

I don't think your God, or my God or his God really wrote "temptation" is evil, rather love yourself, and others as you would want to be loved and man , he gave us hormones?

If you take some things from the Bible and don't apply others. Be free Spades, don't hurt anyone, but certainly don't sit around the house either thinking you have to be a Monk...

Most Priests are not right?

It's not evil, it's evil to hurt someone in my opinion, it's good to have free will and be yourself.

You worked it out, not a sister, not sexually, a close friend who I find attractive. That's your opinon, by the way Smile Remember beauty is skin deep.

I'd love to say get out there and get layed but you would get upset with me, oops I said it.