@XXSpadeMasterXX,
Ryan.
It's natural for us to fall for someone in life.. Sometimes a person ticks all the boxes.. But, if they are in an abusive relationship, you have heart, they will remain in that, as in their mind, they have been conditioned and feel worthless but, love the person they are with because the person is controlling. And, in that, makes them feel that they are the only one that would ever love them, no one else ever will.
You are fighting a battle there that you can not win.
But, also I feel that you so badly want love that this person in her vulnerabilty you want to save.
Here is the thing.
You can not save anyone in that instance, they have to want to save themselves, they have to realise that they are someone..She hasn't.
Do you not want an assertive woman who knows what she wants? Do you know what you want?
Money is claimed to be the root of all evil, but then, women want to feel safe, that they can achieve together, in togetherness.
You say you don't need money. But sweet, be it as that is true, if one person works and you do not, would that work?
What is your future plans? At 30.
Can love alone build a foundation?
Do we not have debts and bills ?
Do you find someone that is ok, with living for today with the oldern days philopshy of love will conquer all, it is off course possible, naturally.
But you need to see this woman, although controlled, has no assertiveness , little belief in self.. And so.. Will remain with this man.. You can't save her and you can't dream that dream...
Time to move on..
The only way you can save her is to make her believe in "herself" that she is important....