@spendius,
spendius wrote:
Quote:With that, there is no supporting evidence that we live multiple lives. It sounds great,
It doesn't sound great to me. I might be a rat. Or a rock waiting for the melt-water to wear me away. Or a Duke's fourth son got out of his favourite chambermaid. That sounds okay.
What about Rawanda?
I'll settle for this being it. I know it doesn't matter what I'll settle for and if I'm coming back I'm coming back. I just hope not. Is there anything you can do to get out of it?
It's a million to one you get as lucky as we are. And we do enough groaning.
Well it is good to recognize it and it is understandable to not like it. There is nothing good in major disasters. Sure people who are not involved could learn from it. Learn compassion or empathy for others suffering. This is not a bad thing to learn but it shouldn't be necessary to learn through witnessing a tragedy.
Some see all of life as a tragedy and there is nothing good in it at all. It sounds really negative but it is motivational. They seek the way out as you are requesting. The buddha says there is a way out. He challenges you to find it. He says it there is a way. I guess you have to just try it. What do you have to lose? If it works then you got out. If it fails how are you any worse off?
It could be a complete waste of time, but you never know until you give it your best go. Only you can decide if you have given it your all. It is not an easy road, it is easy to get lost, the path is not always clearly defined. There are a lot of ways to be misled. You can also be your own worst enemy on the journey. Be flexiable, be willing to take on a challenge, find some bravery to continue and if you really want to find it, it should be as if you can't breath.
Like a person drowning, the only thing a person who is drowing is thinking about is getting some air, getting to the surface. They aren't thinking about whats on tv, or what they want for lunch or wanting to hear some music. All they want is to get to the surface and breath. If you don't seek it with that mindset then you are drowning.