@XXSpadeMasterXX,
I have a question for all of you.
Seems like the right thread.
Today, for me it's Mother's Day... My Grandmother was my soul, she was my wisdom... I love my Mother but her Mother died when I was 25, today she cried, she still can not cope.
Point being, I would like to know how many of you visit a grave of a loved one.. I did today with my Mother as much of a shock it was to her, that I was there, I think she wanted it to be her time, Dad was over the moon I did that... followed them and was late in giving my Dog his diabetic injection.
And, if you do visit a grave, then doesn't that tell you something? ....
In all that we discuss... At the end of the day... We miss someone... To believe that they can hear us and be there is worth more than this shirt, of who, what, science, catholic.................
Today, I felt nothing, and said to my Mother, I don't need to be here to know she is there............
But, bottom line is... We all deal with death differently...
Just be real for once... Everyone has visited their loved ones somewhere along the line.
And, in that... it's called respect but there is some form of belief that they know where are there.
If you think different, surely you are kidding yourself.
Regardless of what you believe.