Oh please. Spanking has been in the standard repertoire of sexual fetishes since Sacher-Masoch first uttered "thank you miss, may I have another?" It's about as vanilla as a fetish can be. If you can't find someone who won't at least be GGG
about indulging your fetish for spanking, you just haven't looked hard enough.
This needed to be repeated a few times.
Kids are doing NOTHING NEW in the bedroom and NOTHING NEW when it comes to sex adventures.
Spanking? thats all
? Really? Its almost silly to think that people really believe they are 'bad' because they enjoy that.
Im not going to go there on the 'fetish' crowd I know, nor am I going to elaborate on what they do. But if all you want is spanking and all you like is spanking and you are letting your friends' giggles detour you from finding someone else who will like that, then you are just as immature as they are.
No. That isnt a judgment. that is truth.
Of course they will laugh.. and the ones who laugh the hardest? More than likely think just as you do.. they are just too damn scared to say so .
If you want to have a comfortable space talking about spanking with your friends , start it off as a big joke. Make jokes about it, walk around and slap yourself on the behind. But have the personality and the confidence to not only back that up
, but to make a big scene out of it and get the laughs you want. Really...humor is the best introduction to things. No one needs to know anyway that you prefer it, but those who are sharing the same thoughts as you will find comfort and humor in it and you will make your place simply .
Spanking is not 'taboo'... all teenagers think something to do with sex is 'taboo' because they think they invented it
. It seems common that teenagers feel as though they are sexual pioneers and their parents and other adults are only missionary vanilla sexual types.
that could not be further from the truth.
When you get out of high school, you will learn that your friends opinions of you, and what makes them giggle at you, and your perceived status among them is NOT important and is rather silly. It is SO freeing too!!
Unfortunately the only thing you have experienced is high school and its drama so you have no real experience to draw on when it comes to how to ignore them and realizing the lack of importance they really have in your life. That is stressful in itself and I completely understand it. But hear me and others... high school life..ISNT important. Being yourself is. And being comfortable in your own skin IS
If all you are into is spanking, your own shyness here is the larger part of problem, not them. but again comes the uphill swim against high school kids. Not taking the time to look for a match is only your fault. There is a certain type of personality that would be very open with that.. though majority of people are probably ok with it to a certain extent. Start looking into your cos play groups, character ...anime...etc.. That will be common there.
Spanking isnt taboo. Spanking isnt deviant. Spanking is SO common even vanilla porn has it.
really.. you are common... not out of the norm at all.